Betty MacDonald fan club fans,
we wish you a very nice Monday.
Betty MacDonald fan club organizer Linde Lund shares outstanding photos and videos on her page.
Linde is very fond of a poem of one of her friends and we got the permission to publish it on Betty MacDonald fan club blog. It's an excellent one. Linde Lund's friend is an author and artist.
We are going to publish the great poem during this week.
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Do you agree what Betty MacDonald wrote about women and men?
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I enjoyed the breakfast at the bookstore with Brad and Nick very much.
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Claudia
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The Egg and I by Betty MacDonald
 ".
 . .I realized why it is so much easier for a man to adjust himself  to 
new surroundings and people than for a woman.  Men are so much less  
demanding in friendship.  A woman wants her friends to be perfect.   She
 sets a pattern, usually a reasonable facsimile of herself, lays a  
friend out on this pattern and worries and prods at any little  
qualities which do not coincide with her own image.  She simply won't  
be bothered with anything less than ninety per cent congruity, and  will
 accept the ninety per cent only if the other ten per cent is  shaping 
up nicely and promises accurate conformity within a short  time.  
Friends with glaring lumps or unsmoothable rough places are  cast off 
like ill-fitting garments, and even if this means that the  woman has no
 friends at all, she seems happier than with some  imperfect being for 
whom she would have to make allowances.    A man has a friend, 
period.  He acquires this particular friend  because they both like to 
hunt ducks.  The fact that the friend  discourses entirely in 
four-letter words, very seldom washes, chews  tobacco and spits and 
random, is drunk a good deal of the time and  hates women, in no way 
affects the friendship.  If the man notices  these flaws in the 
perfection of his friend, he notices them casually  as he does his 
friend's height, the color of his eyes, the width of  his shoulders; and
 the friendship continues at an even temperature for  years and years 
and years."
".
 . .I realized why it is so much easier for a man to adjust himself  to 
new surroundings and people than for a woman.  Men are so much less  
demanding in friendship.  A woman wants her friends to be perfect.   She
 sets a pattern, usually a reasonable facsimile of herself, lays a  
friend out on this pattern and worries and prods at any little  
qualities which do not coincide with her own image.  She simply won't  
be bothered with anything less than ninety per cent congruity, and  will
 accept the ninety per cent only if the other ten per cent is  shaping 
up nicely and promises accurate conformity within a short  time.  
Friends with glaring lumps or unsmoothable rough places are  cast off 
like ill-fitting garments, and even if this means that the  woman has no
 friends at all, she seems happier than with some  imperfect being for 
whom she would have to make allowances.    A man has a friend, 
period.  He acquires this particular friend  because they both like to 
hunt ducks.  The fact that the friend  discourses entirely in 
four-letter words, very seldom washes, chews  tobacco and spits and 
random, is drunk a good deal of the time and  hates women, in no way 
affects the friendship.  If the man notices  these flaws in the 
perfection of his friend, he notices them casually  as he does his 
friend's height, the color of his eyes, the width of  his shoulders; and
 the friendship continues at an even temperature for  years and years 
and years."sooooo much truth, it's killing me
not only do I love this book and this writer because she is real and honest, but also because she can be asolutely hilarious when writing about things that were really hard for her.
and.... she wrote some books that were part of my favorite list as a child... Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle anyone??
 
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There was a Betty MacDonald Fan Club Meeting in Oslo.
I met Betty MacDonald fans from five continents.
by the way, your quote at the top of the page has been my favorite quote for years, but i never knew who wrote it. :)
-Emily (not Matt) ;)